Dr. Shahara Lauren E. Godfrey, a Core Teacher at the East Bay Meditation Center, passed away on December 1, 2020. In this piece from the January 2019 issue of Lion's Roar, she shares a story about the power of kindness. Find more information about her life and memorial here. The other day I was shopping at one of those large, get-everything-you-need department stores when I passed another African American woman in the aisle. “Cancer?” she whispered, noticing my short hairstyle. Though my hair doesn’t have anything to do with me being a cancer survivor, she was right. I am a survivor. The woman and I discovered we’d each had cancer twice—breast cancer for her, multiple myeloma for me. She shared some of her ongoing struggles with her latest remission and I shared mine. We commiserated and laughed out loud about the irony of being alive and blessed, coupled with feelings of pain and suffering. And then we showed each other our battle scars, saying, “Girl, please!” All I could do was smile with gratitude. I was moved by her stories and shared some supportive information that I hoped would make her life easier. I felt like I was offering her gifts, and she unwrapped each one with such appreciation. She talked about the power of prayer. We laughed about how fierce our daughters could be with their protectiveness. This camaraderie was such a welcome surprise. I loved how we laughed about our battle wounds from chemo and other treatments. There was so much common struggle shared in such a short period of time, yet it wasn’t until later that I fully grasped how caring and kind we had been with each other. This spontaneous compassion given from stranger to stranger was simply wonderful—and we were strangers no more. As we parted, we hugged, while kindness held both our hands. The woman said a prayer for both of us. All I could do was smile with gratitude.