Why Nothing Is Ever Enough: Working with No-Self and the Sense of Lack
Zen teacher and philosopher David Loy unpacks one of Buddhism's most important and misunderstood teachings, no-self, through the lens of what he calls the "sense of lack": the nagging feeling that something is missing, that we're not quite real or adequate enough. Drawing on Freud, Ernest Becker, and Dogen, Loy shows how our endless "lack projects" like money, fame, romance, and power are symptoms of a deeper confusion, and how Zen practice offers genuine help.
Introduction
Zen teacher and philosopher David Loy opens with a personal encounter with Ernest Becker's <em>The Denial of Death</em>—and a key Buddhist pivot: the real problem isn't that we'll die someday, but that right now we don't feel quite real enough.
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Introduction
Zen teacher and philosopher David Loy opens with a personal encounter with Ernest Becker's The Denial of Death—and a key Buddhist pivot: the real problem isn't that we'll die someday, but that right now we don't feel quite real enough.
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The Sense of Lack and Its Projects
Because the self is a construct, it's inherently insecure — shadowed by a sense that something is missing. Loy examines money, fame, beauty, power, and romantic love as "lack projects" that can never quite fill the void they're meant to address.
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How Buddhism Can Help
Unlike other lack projects, Buddhism can actually address the root problem. Drawing on Dogen's famous words, Loy shows how Zen practice deconstructs the sense of self — and with it, the sense of lack that depends on it.
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Guided Zen Meditation
A clear, accessible introduction to Zen breath-counting practice—a direct way to experience, however briefly, what it feels like when the sense of self steps aside and there is “just this.”
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Lack is Personal, Collective, and Civilizational
Loy widens the lens: lack isn't only personal but institutionalized—in consumerism, the growth economy, even civilization's faith in progress—and asks whether it explains so much of the anxiety people, especially young people, feel today.
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