Ego & Its Projections
Explore the fundamental Buddhist teaching that “all dharma agrees at one point” — ego — discovering how this seemingly solid sense of self is actually a process and project that narrows vast open potential into frozen constructs, creates the split between self and other, and traps us in prepackaged worlds of our own making, while learning how contemplative practice can expose and dissolve these subtle patterns.
Introduction: The One Point Where All Dharma Agrees
Meet Judy Lief as she introduces the exploration of ego — a notion so important yet hard to grasp in Buddhist teachings — sharing the Mahayana slogan “All Dharma agrees at one point,” which turns out to be ego, emphasizing that understanding this fundamental quality underlies both our confusion and our awakening.
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Introduction: The One Point Where All Dharma Agrees
Meet Judy Lief as she introduces the exploration of ego — a notion so important yet hard to grasp in Buddhist teachings — sharing the Mahayana slogan “All Dharma agrees at one point,” which turns out to be ego, emphasizing that understanding this fundamental quality underlies both our confusion and our awakening.
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Buddhist Psychology: From Open Field to Frozen Constructs
Discover how Buddhist psychology begins with something positive — a vast field of limitless, luminous possibility (beginner’s mind with endless possibilities versus expert’s mind with few) — but from this open ground, we create boundaries, territories, strategies, and conflict, narrowing from an ocean of potential to one little dot we cling to ferociously (ego), using our perceptions as “ego fuel” to prove we’re real, distorting everything through likes and dislikes until we’re only seeing our own reflection rather than reality, creating frozen worlds like corpses from living systems, with the intention to create safety but actually building our own prison without spontaneity or possibility.
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Guided Contemplation: Investigating the Perceiver
Experience a contemplation meditation exploring perception itself — noticing how you perceive this moment through senses, thoughts, and sensations, questioning “How can you possibly perceive your own mind” and “Who perceives?” and “Does the sound need you to perceive it?” — observing how quickly the sense of “I am perceiving” arises with any perception, investigating where the boundaries of self are and where projection begins, and spending moments just letting the senses sense, sensations sensate, and thoughts think without the “I” doing them, arousing curiosity about whether it’s possible to perceive purely and whether that seemingly impenetrable division between self and other is necessary or even real.
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Closing: Curiosity, Noticing, and Relaxing
Receive encouragement to cultivate curiosity, attentiveness, and questioning — not to find answers but to notice how easily fixation and grasping weasel their way in at subtle levels, understanding that these ego processes don’t like to be noticed and that simply noticing weakens ego’s structure since it thrives on stealth, discovering that mindfulness and awareness practices are “little exposes” of the tricks and strategies that solidify ego and our world while undercutting our receptive, spontaneous, light, humorous, and delightful approach to life — so be curious, be observant, notice, and then just relax, because things will dissolve on their own.
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